Lessons Learned in May (2016 Edition)

Lessons Learned in May (2016 Edition)

This monthly edition comes to you from West Africa where my husband and I now live. Each month I take time to look back on my month to see what I have learned whether it be serious, fun, or trivial.  I then join up with other bloggers at Chatting at the Sky in what they have learned this month.

May began with orientation with a new
organization and ended with us settling into our new home in West Africa.
  It has been a crazy last two months as we have decided on what was next for us and made the move. so it
feels wonderful to be settling in our new home and figuring out what life here
will be like.
  Here are a few of my
lessons for this month.

are in the right place for this season.

As we went through orientation and now as we learning the ropes here, we
see God’s hand in bringing us to this place at this time.  We are excited about the chance to work in West Africa. I wouldn’t say it feels like home but it does feel like where
we are supposed to be.  If you want to
know how we ended up in West Africa, read my post What About West 

My husband is already busy working at the airport.  He hit the ground running dealing with
maintenance issues and getting to know the guys he will be in charge of. 

I, on the other hand, am taking it slow. Our pantry is stocked and we have the basics as far as furniture.  For this reason and that we might move again, I
am taking my time in figuring out what to do with our living space.  I am also getting a head start on school planning since curriculum needs to be ordered. 
It has been delightful getting to know the ladies on the team as they take me shopping or as I
attend the bible studies they have each week.  Most days, I manage nice walk by the beach
and have some time to read. At least I will until school starts in August.

 I can survive security training.

For our new organization, we needed to go through security training.  I was pretty nervous about
this.  When we first went overseas, we
went through a different security training so I knew a little of what it might be
like.  After living in Central Asia, I
wasn’t quite sure how I would react to the simulations.  My fears were unfounded. The training turned out to be a good refresher.  The trainer was not only a security
consultant but a seminary graduate.  He
did a
n amazing job of talking about the need for risk at times but to also know when to not take unnecessary risks.  His use of
scripture helped us think about the theology of risk. The simulations gave us some good discussions, and I was able to hold myself together and not freak out.  

know what to do in a car jacking.

One of the things that we simulated in our training was a car
jacking.   The main thing to remember is
that you are more important than your car so let them have your car.  If you are the driver, follow the
instructions from the car jacker but do so slowly and with no abrupt movements.  For example, when you are going to take off
you seat beat, let the car jacker know that is what you are doing so he doesn’t
think you are getting a weapon.  Take
your time turning off the car and putting the keys on your seat so that
others in the car can get out through the doors away from the car jacker.  If you have children in car seats in the
back, tell the car jacker that you are going to the back seat to get them
out.  Then enter the back area through
the opening between the two middle seats so that you are in the car with your
kids.  Exit as quickly as possible.  You want to insure that are not outside of the car with
your kids still in the car. 

Hopefully I will never have to use this training, but it is always good
to be prepared.

am thankful that West Africa is different from Central Asia.

We are in a
different place with a different organization.
We loved Central Asia and our team there but the differences are
   One place has
mountains and the other beaches.
place is Muslim and the other mostly Christian.
In Central
Asia, we were mostly pilot/mechanic families.
In West Africa, there are three pilot/mechanic families and 7 families
that are working on projects.
  Since we
only fly for our organization, we will be more directly involved in the actual
work which will be an interesting change.

Our experience in Central Asia will be valuable but there will be much to learn about the African culture and the best way to engage with the people.  I will need to be more independent as I will need be able to drive and navigate the city to take care of things for our family.  Central
Asia will always have a special place in my heart but for now West Africa is
slowly finding its place in my heart too.

is best for me not to use my name and actual location for my blog.

This was a
hard decision.  Even though I am no
longer working in a closed country, being googled is something that could
affect those I worked with in Central Asia. I would never want to jeopardize
their work. 
This blog has been a blessing as a place to
share and process the lessons I am learning. I know using my name would help
bring readers to my blog but that is okay, I am at peace with who God sends my
  I am thankful for all of you who
come by to share in this place with me.
I don’t have a lot of readers but am blessed by those that I do

What is a lesson that you have learned this month?  I would love to hear from you in the comments. 

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